When Connie and I started working together, Connie was mid-divorce, but felt crippled by guilt. She believed that she wasn’t good enough. Connie says:
“I was in the process of a divorce, crippled by guilt and feelings of not being good enough, I honestly didn’t like myself. I couldn’t see a happy ending for me, I desperately wanted my old life back and spent the majority of my time replaying the past. My relationship with my ex-husband, who I co-parent with, wasn’t in a good place. I found it hard to let go of guilt. I thought I couldn’t cope on my own. I was constantly looking at the past and I didn’t like who I was, I had no belief in myself and thought I needed others to get through. I felt incredibly low and fearful, I was just going through the motions.Claire helped me to realise I had everything I needed within me. She completely changed my mindset and enabled me to become excited about the future. I will always ask myself “what if something amazing happens?”, as opposed to the negative ‘what if’s I always had before. Being able to recognise how far I had come was a huge turning point for me.I no longer live my life in the past, I stay present and grateful. I am now able to live alone, something I didn’t think was ever possible. My relationships are better, especially the one with my ex-husband. I love myself; I love the person that I have evolved into. I enjoy life and am now able to spread my positivity to the people I love. Claire is just such a wonderful soul, I instantly felt at ease with her, like she was an old friend. Claire’s approach is gentle, and subtle, which enables you to not feel pressured and work at your own pace, figuring things out for yourself with her guidance and genuine support. Claire has completely changed my life for the better. I will be forever grateful to her and the lessons she has taught me will stay forever.”